Is there anything called the Perfect Ideal Man? And is every
woman’s expectation of accidentally yet pleasantly bumping into this Perfection
justified? If you tell me you haven’t given this thought, you’re definitely
lying. Every person likes their bed made in a certain way, their coffee just
that perfect flavor and tinge. And their man, with all the finishings of the
picture in their head.
Well, unfortunately most often and almost always, this
picture remains in the head. It never translates into reality unless you’ve
prayed really hard or you just got plain lucky in which case you become the
victim of less fortunate fellow-love travelers. Most often when you go looking
for trouble, you’ll end up finding it. Ever wondered why such un-fortunate luck
doesn’t work in the case of a partner? The few twisted injustices of life.
Women live in an illusion. In a utopia where everything’s
just perfect and sun-kissed, their man is baked to perfection with the right
look, talk, walk and touch. They escape into this little world of theirs when
the cruel real world becomes too harsh for their tastes. They hope and hope
against hope that this halcyon they have created in their mind remains
uncrushed, untouched by the blows of truth.
It’s safer to realize the boundaries of this strange little
world than to be stuck in it and refuse to realize the potent dangers of
becoming a recluse. It’s alright to escape into it once in awhile, I mean who
doesn’t dream? But it’s just for your good you realize that you weren’t created
to live in that perfect world of your concocted tastes.
Perhaps God created the world so imperfect so that we
realize the value of something good when it meets the eye. How would you feel
if you found a diamond in a heap of rubble? So stop looking for perfection in
this cynical world. If you’re lucky, it’ll walk its way into your life and set
right everything that’s crooked in your life. If it doesn’t walk into your life
what can I say? Perhaps, your vision of perfection out beat God’ best effort.
So dream of the stars but learn to settle for the moon. It’s definitely better
than some of the earthly creatures.
